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Conquering Your Fears! Mindset is imperative for success.

We are all afraid of something. Most of us are simply afraid of rejection and that tends to keep us stuck and unable to move forward in our business. Why? Maybe there's something that occurred in your past that you've never quite addressed and suppressed enough to move forward with your daily tasks.

But, has that suppression caused you to remain in fear of doing the things you want, or asking for the help you need? It's possible.

In 2020, I want you to work on conquering your fears because we all need the right mindset to be successful.

If you operate with the mindset of "he is not going to allow me," or "why should I ask her that, she'll just say no," you'll never know if what you want is possible to receive.

Two things I did in 2020: asked for what I wanted and I put fear in perspective.

Asked for what you want:

My grandmother always told me, "baby, don't be afraid to ask for what you want. You can only get one of two answers. Yes or No. Either way, what's to be afraid of?"

In 2020, I decided to just go for it. I sent the emails that I had been wanting to send for a few years, and I asked the questions that I was afraid to ask. Why? I noticed that for the last several years, I have be harboring deep emotions (limited mindset) that I "have to do it all by myself." I know this is familiar to you also. My " I have to do it alone" mindset comes from partially being raised in a family of strong independent women, but it was also crippling me to think that I would be weak if I asked for helped.

I simply had to put things in perspective and determine what makes sense for my business. Conquering fear is at the top of my list. So I ask for what I want and so far, the answer has been yes. As my grandmother said, "what's to be afraid of?"

Put Fear In Perspective:

To do this, you must be honest with yourself and determine your current mindset. Have you been avoiding something or someone simply because of fear. Afraid of being rejected or afraid of appearing weak? Why is that happening? What caused this fear to materialize in your life and thus, grow into it's own being in your life?

To put fear in perspective, determine the thing that scares you most and just do it. Do not worry about the answer. Just jump in and see the magic happen.

Mindset Is Imperative to Success

Allowing fear to take control of your life and business will surely create a mindset of defeat, sorrow, and rejection. To be successful, you need to build the proper mindset for your business so that you can be successful. When you become a client of SLD, we provide you with a network of professionals who can help you conquer your fears and get you to the place of asking for what you want. It's time to start building the right mindset that aligns with your future aspirations.


This article is a service of SL DeBarros Law Firm, LLC. We offer a wide array of business legal services and can help you make the wisest business choices throughout life and in the event of your death. We also offer a Business Protection Start-Up Session or a Business Audit for an ongoing business, which includes a review of all the legal, financial, and tax systems you need for your business. Call us today to schedule.

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